Unfortunately the term Mesothelioma is becoming increasingly more known, the mere mention of the striking fear in most of us because we all know it is assigned to death. Asbestos is that the reaper, Mesothelioma is his daughter inside the hand. Asbestos, the miracle product from the fifties is now recognized being an enemy from the twentieth century. A ruthless enemy who‘ll kill more and lots the best way to compared to the war. Men, women and children will certainly be victims of the prey, innocents that have at some stage in their lives inhalation of asbestos dust. We happen to be in connection with products containing asbestos in your life time. We sat inside the asbestos classrooms, stood next to our fathers as they simply cut an asbestos fence, arrived old linoleum with asbestos clogged behind of them. Visited the local board in which the broken leaves of the were offered towards the wind. Records show that there‘s a greater number of individuals with asbestosis and mesothelioma that have directly worked in asbestos mines, shipyards and also the companies that manufacture asbestos products, though there are a lot of people that have never worked in those industries. Their connection with asbestos, due to the dust brought home on the husband’s clothes or coming from the asbestos residues placed all around the houses of mines and perimeters from the city. However the tragedy doesn‘t end there, children playing innocently with their own backyard played among asbestos residues as children play elsewhere inside the sand. That They‘d no method of truly understanding that their sand was blue asbestos. A very good bath at the conclusion from the day, perhaps removed the dust coming from the skin, however the dust inside the lungs and would have stayed dormant for several years before claiming his deadly warning legacy. Without, the ideal individual suddenly reaches in need of breath, x rays reveal fluid inside the lungs and also the nightmare begins. Questions are asked and you also answer, yes, I‘d been exposed to asbestos dust but I‘d been alone inside the city for a couple of months and it was eventually greater than 40 years back. How can it be possible? This is actually the most embarrassing thing about mesothelioma. Why can there be such an extended time period between inhalation of asbestos dust and also the onset from the disease? What triggers a robust healthy body suddenly succumb inwith it? So exactly what do we do to avoid this from happening? Blood tests are now available to work out if mesothelioma is present inside the body before somebody is mindful of the symptoms. This really is an amazing breakthrough and can be step one towards healing the disease before it becomes terminal. Recently, mesothelioma was cured of the mouse and attempts to provide it back the mouse were unsuccessful. That too is definitely an exciting thing and holds a glimmer of hope for most of us. I witnessed first-hand the devastation of mesothelioma. My husband was a robust, manly man who rarely had each day off in her life. Suddenly, in the age of 52, he became in need of breath and was later diagnosed with pleural mesothelioma. He‘d lived inside the asbestos mining town of Wittenoom in Western Australia for a couple of months in the age of seven. Asbestos dust inhaled and then it took 45 years to get deadly. I still see it a challenge to believe. Despite his prognosis of three to nine months, Brian survived for 2 yrs. He was 54 when he died
Bagi beberapa pria tentu di dalam hati mereka tebersit untuk melakukan poligami.
Khususnya bagi pria muslim, mereka ingin poligami untuk mengikuti sunnah Nabi dan mengikuti perintah di dalam Al Quran.
Sering kali sang istri tidak siap mendengar keinginan tersebut, apalagi jika yang akan menjadi madu jauh lebih muda dan lebih cantik darinya.
Ini kisah yang diceritakan oleh Ustadz Bangun Samudra.
Ketika seorang ustaz mau menikah dan menanyakan kepada istrinya apakah membolehkannya melakukan poligami.
Jawaban cerdas istrinya sontak membuatnya kapok untuk berpoligami.
Berikut kisahnya :
“Jeng, kalau Mas menikah lagi boleh?” tanyanya kepada Istri.
“Ndak boleh”
“Lho kenapa?” Lalu Ustadz Bangun Samudra pun membukakan Al Qur’an. Mantan pastor itu membukakan surat An Nisa’ yang di dalamnya ada ayat
وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تُقْسِطُوا فِي الْيَتَامَى فَانْكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُمْ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ مَثْنَى وَثُلَاثَ وَرُبَاعَ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تَعْدِلُوا فَوَاحِدَةً
”Dan jika engkau takut tidak akan dapat berlaku adil terhadap (hak-hak) perempuan yang yatim (apabila engkau menikahinya), maka nikahilah perempuan-perempuan (lain) yang engkau sukai: dua, tiga atau empat. Kemudian jika engkau takut tidak akan dapat berlaku adil, maka (nikahilah) seorang saja” (QS. An Nisa’ : 3)
“Kalau engkau melarang poligami berarti melanggar firman Allah”
“Lalu Mas menikah untuk apa?”
“Sunnah Rasul. Ibadah”
“Mas, kalau Mas memang betul-betul menjalankan sunnah Rasul dan betul-betul untuk ibadah Mas, tak siapkan dua istri”
Ustadz Bangun Samudra sangat kaget dengan jawaban ini. “Kapan ta’aruf?” tanyanya tidak sabar.
“Nanti sore siap” Jawaban ini lebih mengagetkan lagi. Maka sorenya, ia pun berdandan rapi.
Sore harinya, sang istri menepati janji. Ia mengajak Ustadz Bangun Samudra pergi ke sebuah rumah.
Setelah pintu diketuk, keluarlah seorang perempuan. “Kenalkan Mas, ini Mbah Darmi. Janda. Usianya 75 tahun”
“Lho, ini?”
“Iya Mas. Janda.
Berapa kitab hadits sudah Mas baca sejak masuk Islam sampai hari ini?” Ustadz Bangun Samudra terdiam.
Ia telah membaca 15 kitab hadits. Mulai Shahih Bukhari, Shahih Muslim, Sunan Tirmidzi, Sunan Abu Dawud, Sunan An Nasa’i hingga Hakim. “Siapa istri muda dari Rasulullah?”
“Aisyah”
“Sebelumnya?”
“Saudah”
“Usianya?”
“69 tahun”
“Status?”
“Janda”
Istri Ustadz Bangun Samudra tahu persis jika suaminya sudah tahu bahwa semua istri Nabi janda dan berusia tua ketika dinikahi beliau.
Hanya Aisyah yang masih gadis. Dan semua pernikahan itu pun karena ibadah, dakwah dan perintah dari Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala.
Calon kedua yang hendak ditaarufkan kepada Ustadz Bangun Samudra juga seorang janda lanjut usia.
Akhirnya keinginan poligami itu pun kandas oleh kata-kata pamungkas istrinya.
“Istri Rasul semuanya janda dan tua, Mas. Jadi kalau Mas mau mengikuti sunnah Rasul, aku rela Mas. Ini Mbah Darmi dan calon berikutnya Mbah To, usia 76 tahun.”
“Kalau begitu Mas menjalankan sunnah Rasul yang lainnya saja,” ucap sang ustaz sambil berlalu dengan wajah cemberut.
Bisa juga nih buat bunda jika sang suami mau poligamu ikuti cara ini.
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